For context I’m a guy and I’ve joined couples for threesomes and did a couples MFMs and one FFM with an ex. It just so happened I got lucky and she was interested in that kinda stuff too.

I’m currently dating a woman who’s completely vanilla and monogamous. I’ve always considered myself emotionally monogamous, but definitely enjoyed that ‘extra’ if you know what I mean from time to time when I was single.

Sometimes I battle with myself knowing that I probably can’t have my cake and eat it too when it comes to relationships. You either meet someone you’re on the same page with on that stuff, or you don’t.

It takes two to tango, but I would be lying if I said I’d be bummed if I never got to experience group sex again for the rest of my life. For example I’d love to go to a full blown swingers party/orgy some day. 😅

Anyone else think about this?

We were married a long time before getting into the lifestyle, so it is not something that we need. We could easily give it up if we had to.